Waksi;
What you are doing is exactly backwards to what actually works. Teddy Roosevelt spend a lifetime looking for sights that worked for poor eye sight, and a fortune as well. The formula he came up with was a shallow V shaped rear sight, with a round bottomed notch at the bottom of the V, that just fits the bead, or barleycorn, front sight, with little or no light on either side. You are right, you can’t judge the top of the sight with the top of the notch. And, your eyes can’t accurately split the light on either side of the sight either. So, you need a sight combination that doesn’t require trying to make your eyes do what they won’t do anymore. I only wish I had found this system before I got so old, and blind, and shaky. I might have been quite a contender. Good Luck.
Hungry Horse