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I do a hundred or more centrifugal castings a week in gold and silver. Steam casting is a very effective method of making small castings , although, I find vacuum casting easier and more accurate. Nonetheless, you will always need a mold and the process for making that mold is almost universally the same. A huge part of successful casting is knowing where and how to attach sprues and, if required, vents. Using lead is a bad idea. I'm not one particularly frightened by lead toxicity (unless of course you are talking about the kind of "lead poisoning" that a fired bullet represents) but even the most minute amounts of lead in silver or gold will destroy the alloy. Gold becomes so brittle when contaminated with even trace amounts of lead that you can crumble the casting in your hand.
If you are having trouble keeping the pattern on the sprues, your sprues are too small. Use wax wire (comes on spools) of sufficient gage to support the pattern as it is invested and to provide sufficient flow area for the molten metal. The number of sprues, the size, and the location are critical to get the casting to come out successfully and without porosity. As the casting chills, there must be sufficient liquid metal to draw from as the casting solidifies. That means that the thickest part of the casting should be the attach point for the main sprue and the sprue should be of sufficient size so that it does not solidify before the casting does. Otherwise, you will get a lot of porosity or shrink back at the attach point.
If the sprue can be inserted directly into the pattern and set up on the investment sprue former so that there is a straight shot out of the mold, you can use a piece of welding rod or even a nail. For example, I recently made a small sterling silver cannon charm. To make the pattern, I dipped a piece of 1/8 inch diameter weld wire in wax until I had sufficient wax to turn on a lathe a small cannon barrel (1 " long) on the end of the wire. (The wire protruded from the cannon muzzle). I put the free end of the wire into wax on the top of the sprue former with the cannon barrel pattern standing straight up on this wire sprue. When the investment had set up, I pulled the rubber sprue former off the casting ring and the end of the wire was exposed sticking out of the bottom of the investment. I pulled the wire out of the mold with a pair of pliers, burned out the remaining wax and cast the charm. As a boy, I used to make perfect castings of insects by mounting them on a pin, investing them this way, and casting through the hole left when I removed the pin.
As mentioned by others, you can sometimes use plastic for sprues. However, be advised that most plastics require a burn out at much higher temperatures to be completely removed. Also, some plastics will expand quite a bit as they are heated and they can crack a delicate mold before they burn out.
Hope this helps. I would also heed Acres advice about getting the gear you need. The references he sites also carry the spools of wax wire (made specifically for casting sprues) in several gages.
Merry Christmas