Well if I were to interject, here are some notes I's make from your list.
1. Plastic Mallet and Ball Peen Hammer, What size? I use a 6OZ and a 12 OZ hamer. For a mallet I'd get a mid size rubber one
2. Surform, What size? I don't use them, so I can't say about this one.
3. File Card? YES!
4. Assorted Files, Small rat tail 6", 6" mill bastard? Links to these would really help because I have no idea. Another one that you'll get some use from is a chain saw file. Also one of the magic tools for the stock maker is a Farriers Rasp.
5. Tap & Wrench, 8X32 two flute tap and appropriate wrench, again a link would help greatly. Get this type.
https://cdn.mscdirect.com/global/images/ProductImages/8640448-24.jpgNot this type.
https://cdn.mscdirect.com/global/images/ProductImages/0026537-23.jpgThe long one is a good tool, but when you want to tap the trigger guard plate for the tang screw the long one will not clear the comb of the stock.
I like to have a tap wrench large enough to turn a 7/16 tap, but small enough to hold a 4X40
Such wrenches are not made any more to my knowledge so you might have to buy 2 of them, one small and one larger.
Also you may find that having some 10X32 taps will be helpful
6. Jewelers saw and blades. Yes.
http://www.riogrande.com/category/tools-and-equipment/120/Saw-Blades-and-Frames/3407. Parallel Clamp, need help picking one out. 6-7" size wise I believe. That will do fine. Get some "C" Clamps too. 4" size is fine.
8. 1/16 Punch. Get a few. 1/16" 1/8" and 1/4
9. Square and Straight edge. Yes and get a long straight edge. I use a piece of precision ground steel 4 feet long. Pretty cheap to buy and you can lay out plans and stocks with it.
10. Cutting Oil? Where and what kind? Any good oil from a plumbing supplier.
11. Opti Visor? yes if you need one
12. Center Punch YES! MSC or Enco can supply this too.
13. Counter Sink Bit, What size and where to buy? MSC or Enco again. Get a 1/4" and a 1/2"
14. Number drill bits # 29 & #18? again no idea what that is or where to buy. These are called "Wire gauge drills" There are also fractional drills and letter drills. You will use a few of each from time to time. You can get them all from MSC, Enco or Brownells. You will need a #28 for 8X32 screws. You use a #21 for 10x32. You will use a letter Q for Jim's White Lightning flash hole liner. You should also get a #6 or 7 to drill clearance holes for #10 screws, a #20 for clearance hols from #8 screws. You will need some to drill holes in the wood for wood screws but I can't tell you what to get because I don't know what size screws you'll have.
I make muzzleloaders full time, so I have a bit of knowledge about these things. If you'd like, e-mail me any time, or call and I'll help you if I can.
szihn@wyoming.com