When a frizzen becomes gouged out, I put them against a 6" grinding wheel and slowly take away the gouges. Frequent quenching. Put your thumb on the back of the frizzen...it'll tell you when it wants quenching. A frizzen will usually take three such 'grinds' before it needs replacing...abut 15000 shots.
If I may, it is an observation of mine, based purely on supposition, that we shoot our flintlocks much more than original rifles were shot. Some of us shoot between 50 - 80 rounds every weekend from our favourite rifle. I'm guessing that 18th C middle class men and women did not.