Jason,
You are going to get a lot of feedback on this, and there are a lot of methods that members here use. I have soldered lugs to the barrel if the lug needed to be on the thinnest part of the barrel. I use the silver solder that you can buy in a tube and just clean the lug and the barrel to make sure there is no oil, clamp the lug down and heat. It would be next to impossible to get the barrel hot enough to warp it with just a propane torch. I say next to impossible, because I am not sure it would be completely impossible.
I have never staked a lug so I cannot speak to that.
My question is why not dovetail it in?? If you have never done that before, it is not as hard as it seems. And you have to do it for the front and rear sights, so the bottom of the barrel is a good place to practice.
Coryjoe