The lock bolster, in my mind at least, is the plate's thickness, including the extra steel above the inside of the plate. In a flintlock, then, it is the inside edge of the pan to the outside of the plate. On a percussion lock, it's the part you file to seat the drum or patent breech.
I file the bolster on percussion plates to get the taper I want through the stock...wider at front than at the rear. That also helps align the hammer with the nipple. On flint plates, no tapering is required when using a swamped barrel, or a parallel barrel with historical dimensions/calibre.