Two C-clamps and a hand towel make a great reloading stand. I just clamp them to the side of a bench, and use a hand towel over them to protect the finish. I too use a carpet scrap on the ground to protect the butt.
I am inveterate "rod-flipper". My rod always goes butt-down on the ground. I never ever want to introduce dirt into my bore, and my ground carpet can get sandy. I just lean it against my outside of the right-hand C-clamp.
Now that I have one of Spiderman's range boxes with the foldout barrel cradle, I will have to modify my procedure slightly. :-)
God Bless, Marc