I had a very similar situation Ed. This is going to be hard to describe in words ( especially before I've finished my coffee!). Anyways, I ended up bending the cock to get a little more reach, then I opened up the tight curve of the cock by heating it up red hot and tapping on a piece of (I think) 1/2 inch rod down into it to open up the tight bend there a little bit. This forced the cup into the right position, but, now the bottom of the cup wasn't square to the nipple.
So, I filed the bottom of the cup square to the nipple, and it looked fine. I was expecting to have to drill the cup deeper, but that didn't turn out to be necessary.