Hydrochloric acid (muriatic) will remove the lead and not bother the brass. Don't try to silver solder with ANY lead in the joint. It will fall apart. Either etch it clean (down to the molecular level) with acid or mechanically cut away the contaminated brass and make a new joint. If cutting away some of the joint leaves the TG short, you may have to add back in a replacement piece of brass. I also use a silver solder that I get from Rio Grande that is brass yellow. HCL is a little slow, but if you have removed most of the lead, the thin remaining layer will come off relatively quickly.
Or, you can use Acetic acid and hydrogen peroxide. The lead dissolves quickly. Use a 1:1 mixture of 5% acetic acid and 3% hydrogen peroxide.