Thanks for the pictures - No worries - we were and are all there at some point - It's like the Dr's office, you gotta show them what hurts, and all they want to do is fix the issue, I don't think anyone on this sight has not seen or fixed all sorts of "issues"
When you say "Cross Bolt" is that the bolt under the barrel from the lock plate to the side plate? Did you drill and tap the lock plate?
So What I would do is:
1) Take out the lock plate and see if there is any bend in it. make sure it's flat
2) If you did drill and tap that front bolt, you will have a hard time moving the plate forward.
3) Are you pulling the plate inward by really tightening the forward bolt?
4) Are you pulling the plate against the barrel by really tightening the upper bolt next to the pan?
Either something is bent, the stock has much more wood on the front than the back of the lock plate (like the others said, a good thing, as you can remove it) or you are tightening the plate so much it's pulling inward (tough to do, as it would probably strip the bolt before bending the plate). Can we see the other side where the brass plate goes (and the heads of the bolts)?
Thanks
Jon