Fred: that is a good observation, and I concur: as you down down the holes on the upper and lower side have a tendency to draw closer together. But the effect is so slight, normally, that I just ignore it. If you were working extremely hard and dense maple, it could be an issue.
I use new screws to the final attachment so that when I dress off the domed heads with a file, the countersinks are nice and tight. The working screws I use during the inletting stage are in and out so many times that the slots become chewed , so nice fresh screws are used to replace the working ones.