I fill a hole or damaged area in the wood with a wood patch. I epoxy the patch into place. Epoxy doesn't move around like some of the other glues do and show a glue line after a while.
I'm not really concerned about the grain lines of the patch I put in though I used to do my best to match it to the original wood as well as the color.
These last points don't often come out as well as I expect them to inspite of careful sifting through scrap pieces for the perfect selection for the patch.
So now, not as much time is spent doing that.
What I do after the patch is glued into place, trimmed and sanded to the original contour is to then go ahead and stain the entire stock & patch together.
Again, this sometimes results in a gross mismatch of color. No matter. The next step is the cover up.
I apply a thin coat of sealer over the patched area. Simple shellac is good.
On this I now 'paint' in the necessary grain and background color(s) to match the patch to the surrounding wood.
It doesn't take all that long with some experience.
Plain artists acrylic paints are used. Very thin layers,,a 'wash' as some artists call it so there is not any build up .
Let it dry. The color will be somewhat subdued from what the surrounding orig wood appears.
That will perk up in the next step.
That is to apply another coating of sealer over the colors.
Now they will match the surrounding area.
A bit of very light buffing with 0000 steel wool to match the surfaces in.
Then go right ahead and apply what ever finish I had planned to use on the stock going right over the patched area as well.
This is all useless w/o pics,,so....
Taking a chance at being shunned for life,,I will post these 2 pics,,
One shows the very poorly matching wood patch epoxied in place.
The other pic shows the same area after being gone over with the above technique.
The final sealer coat had not yet been applied over the colors in the second pic. But you get the idea of what can be done to blend in a wood patch,,or actually just a blob of epoxy patch.