In response to the original poster, I hate to recommend Minwax stains on the internet, just because they are a popular whipping post. However, I have had pretty good luck using them, especially the penetrating oil-based stain, by being careful during application to keep the piece "wet" with stain and rubbing it in rather than just letting it sit before wiping off as the directions imply. When I apply them in this fashion, I get clear grain structure and blotching is minimal; the color will be lighter than if applied according to the directions, though. In my opinion, the difference is that this method allows the dyes and some pigments to penetrate, but does not let pigment sit on the surface.
Why would I use such a terrible product? Well, it is always available, in a wide range of colors that can also be mixed
. I like water and alchohol based stains as well, but I have to order them or drive a long way to get them; also, they dry so quickly that achieving an even tone with out "edges" seems more challenging on larger pieces.
Anyway, it's my opinion that a good finisher (I'm not one) can achieve his desired results in any number of ways, so if Minwax is what you've got, it might work. Give it a try on a test piece.