Mattole,
After years off I'm getting back into rifle building and am in the process of acquiring tools. I'm certainly a newbie but perhaps my purchase decisions can help you.
I went through the forum reviewing all threads discussing carving and inletting tools and made a list of the most frequently recommended ones. The Flexcut 11 pc Carving Kit was also mentioned and since the kit did a good job of covering the tools on my list I bought it. After tinkering (and cutting myself) with the chisels I find that for me the Flexcut kit work well for carving. Several sites carry the Flexcut brand but Woodcraft seems to be the favorite of the forum.
As for inletting, I have a number of straight chisels but felt I needed something better. I wound up buying a couple of dogleg chisels from Stonewall Creek Outfitters and after playing around with them I find they work very well.
When it came to a vise I splurged and bought the Patternmaker or Gunstock Carving Vise (and yes, all of those words are for the name of one vise) from Woodcraft. Woodcraft has several different vises for gunstock work with this vise being the midrange model. The vise was a little more pricey than what I wanted to spend, and it probably won't do too much more than a less expensive model, but it is well built and solid vise that has given years of dependable service to others.
I also bought a surface plate from Woodcraft that was on sale. The reviewers raved about the usefulness of the plate for sharpening chisels and it was cheap enough so I figured why not. As an added incentive, Woodcraft had free shipping on the plate and on all of the other items I bought too.
Books. Recreating and The Art of Building books have already been mentioned and I agree that they are a must buy for the new builder. There is a third book though that I think will also help - The Longrifle Construction Manual from Muzzleloader Builder's Supply. This book, though more basic, is geared to first time builders and yet has nuggets of tips and advice not found in the other two.
I've been drooling over the A. Verner kit myself but need to finish up a couple of other projects first and develop my skills before I tackle such a kit. Muzzleloader Builder's Supply also has two kits covering the Allentown Bucks County area that would make Pavlov proud of me. Please post pics of your kit when you get it.