For cleaning the parts I use any of the spray degreasers (Gun Scrubber, Krudcutter, etc), and soap and water or greaseless hand cleaner for my hands. I'll echo what everyone has said about avoiding skin contact with any of the strong solvents. I keep a box of the disposable nitrile gloves in the shop to wear whenever I'm messing with them. It's what works for me.
Eric