What I was trying to say in response to someone else questioning a 40 cal rifle being a "whomper", (Implying I think, that a 40 cal could not be causing enough recoil to be called a "whomper") was that, a combination of things, other than just actual calculatable recoil, can cause one to bang one's face more that one anticipated.
For some overcharging a flintlock pan can create an anticipatory flinch. I've seen folk show flinch/recoil with a primed but unloaded rifle.
I was not claiming the you were doing that of course, just that it could happen, and that combined with other factors, heavy load, short stock etc etc could cause one shooting a 40 caliber rifle to feel that they were being abused by it. I was not claiming that an over charged pan in and of itself would cause recoil.
I apologize for any confusion I caused with my wording