Harris white flux is available everywhere and is all you need for the application. grab some 56% non-toxic filler while you are there. a lot of the old stuff has a toxic component-which is best avoided. sorry the name escapes me presently.
yes 56% (and up) wicks very nicely. I don't have the specs handy, but for tubing-it must be an almost snug slip fit. too loose is no good (bronze loose-the gap needed for brass brazing) and of course there has to be some gap for the silver to fill.
there are variations on silver brazing (this heat range is brazing not soldering) alloys, 45T comes to mind, that don't wick very well.
warming the flux gently is very important, burned flux is as bad as no flux. when the whiteness goes to gray/glassy, then you can bring the heat and pull the silver where ever it needs to go.
for a big complicated critical joint, it's best to only add filler from one or two points and pull it through to ensure full penetration.