As you said , the face of the plug mates to the forcing cone the back of the plug mates to the back of the barrel . The threads on the plug need to be cut back to the outer part of the plug so that it will screw all the way down and mate to the back of the barrel .
As to cutting the larger offset plug so the smaller plug will fit .
I found the easiest way to do it , is to not do it . IE I use 2 small plugs with a center rib attachment .
But if you do the off set , then you need to leave the small plug long. That way you can set in the off set plug first . Bring it around so that the off set lines up with the other barrel . Scribe the circumference of the bore on the off set .
I then follow with a grinding burr . You only want your first cut out to be just large enough to thread in the smaller plug . Once you have it opened up , you then can thread the plug down so that the back of it now comes down onto the off set plug .
Now you scribe around the smaller plug , tracing the outline onto the off set plug
. Now carefully grind , then file to the final line .
If you use an off set plug , that plug must be the first one put into the barrels and the last one out of the barrels