"This combination is a 10 ounce denim patch at .0225" compressed using my mic and a .445" ball. It's an old video. This method is easy and as you can see, that combination is very easy to load." - even with the rifle's 3/8" hickory rod. No coning, just a nicely radiused crown. The start's stud, used to put the ball and patch down into the bore 1/4" top start, can be done just with pressure - but, smacking the starter's handle with the palm/heal of the hand is quicker- as you can see. It also reduces the downward pressure on the butt stock, reducing the possibility of breaking the stock.
The Swiss used hammers or mallets, but that was because they used balls that were larger than the groove diameter itself. It was the American backwoodsman who started the ball rolling on the type of loading we do today, wherein we use a ball and patch combination that actually compresses the patch INTO the ball at the bottom of the groove, not just on the lands.
Lay a lubed (where the ball is going to go) strip of patch material across the muzzle - punch the ball down into the bore 1/4 to 3/8", then grab the tag ends of the patch and pull it out. The ball should be marked all the way around- 360 degrees of it, heavily from the lands, lightly from the grooves.
Currently, I am using bore size balls in both my .40 and .32 with the same patch I used in the .45, in the above video- without any loading troubles and very easy loading, all day.