Evon,
May I ask what kind of civilian attire you are trying to emulate and perhaps more importantly the time period, location, social status and even religious affilitation? The latter because in many Protestant and Quaker communities, the cocked hat was scorned as being "frippery of the wealthy classes."
Here is something from a well researched link:
But if a partiality for deerskin footwear fits our stereotype of backwoodsmen, their reluctance to wear coonskin caps does not. Felt hats were the norm in the backwoods as elsewhere,
but overwhelmingly hats with respectable, protestant round brims. Whatever their shape, hats everywhere were described in newspapers by the type of felt they were made of. "Wool," "fur," "beaver," "castor," and "raccoon" were all descriptions of felt hats, and not knit or animal skin caps. Oliver Johnson explained how in the backwoods of Indiana in the 1820s and '30s coon fur was used to make the felt and nap of bell-crowned hats. They "looked purty slick [when they was smoothed up]," he said, but they "fuzzed up like an old mad coon for sure" when wet. Johnson's father refused to wear the "bell-crown style" of his day for the same reason backwoodsmen west of the Blue Ridge refused to wear cocked hats a century earlier: fancy head gear "made him feel stuck up." Like most dissenters, Mr. Johnson "always wore a plain, broad-brim wool hat."
Backwoodsmen scorned three-cornered hats as a display of upper class vanity. At Boonesborough in 1778 North Carolina lowlander William Bailey Smith wore a plumed "Macaroni hat" to a parley with besieging Indians to impress them he was a person of high rank. But most frontiersmen would probably agree with the Draper correspondent who thought surveyor George Bedinger's "old Revolutionary cocked hat" was "an oddity" on a par with the feathered goose skin cap worn by his chain carrier.
J. D. F. Smyth says backwoodsmen generally wore flapped hats "of a reddish hue, proceeding from the intensely hot beams of the sun." The flapped hat was so called because its flexible brim could be "flapped before," pulled down in front to shield eyes from the weather like the "broad brimed hat" a New Jersey laborer "generally [wore] flopped down" when he jumped bail in Gloucester County in 1785. Such hats should not be confused with the skin caps colonists of New Sweden "provided with flaps."
http://people.virginia.edu/~mgf2j/clothes.htmlGus