Rolf,
It's not a good idea to use a set screw against the trigger bar as a means of reducing the engagement of the sear on the tumbler. As the wood changes dimension with humidity the set screw will change your engagement which might render the pistol unsafe. Your tumbler notch and sear nose should be shaped to give a minimal safe engagement and the weight of the pull adjusted by changing the angles on the sear nose and tumbler notch. The higher you can make the pivot notch for the trigger on the trigger bar lug, the lighter you'll be able to make your pull. If your trigger bar is 1.0 - 1.5mm past the back end of the sear, there is no way it will ever underride the sear. If you're concerned with keeping the trigger up against the sear, it's an easy matter to mount a little flat or round wire spring on the trigger plate to push up the trigger bar against the sear.
Tom