Like some of the others , I drill from both sides . I also us 1/16th finish nails for pins . I cut them down and then round an polish the ends
I would also agree that there is no substitute for quality drill bits .
However I have found that in a pinch those cheep bits will work . You just cant push them to hard .
Many years back I made a center jig from an old cheep 2 inch C clamp .
Now days you can purchase much the same thing but they for the most part take a long drill bit which can be hard to find at times ..
As I recall there also is a tutorial on making such a jig down in our tools forum ..
The one I made is a little different but does the same thing in that it aligns the bit so you drill , point to point ..
No real need for a drill press , mill ends or center drills .
However if your trying to drill after the stock is shaped or into molding , then center drills can work nice . So do small end mills .
But if you don’t have either , I have found that a small bit will start the hole , without flexing , as long as you don’t have it to far out of the chuck IE no more the ¼ to 3/8 .
For the most part though I just lay up my marks , use a pin drill to start the hole , align my center jig so that the point is on the location on the off side and the point with the drill bit slid through it aligns on the mark on the other side . Tighten the jig slightly . Slide the bit into the jig and drill the hole tell it his the lug . Flip the jig around. Drill from the other side . Then drill out the lug with the barrel out of the stock