Sultzbach,
Don't give up hope finding someone to mentor you by settling for books and you tube videos. Not to be misunderstood, many individuals have learned from text, pictures and by trial and fire, with a fair share of mistakes. Others have done quite well and deserve credit for their exceptional work.
There is a lot that can be said for the camaraderie of a teacher, a guiding hand, a voice of reason, answers to questions, trick and techniques and an old school apprenticeship. If you are willing to invest the time and effort, you will find the right teacher.
I have had the fortunate opportunity to learn bits and pieces of this fascinating craft for nearly 20 years from a local teacher. I was a smart mouthed young lad when I first set foot in his shop, and not a clue where to start. But by the willing desire to do, observing the master and perseverance to succeed, after 9 months, I had my first rifle completed. To this day, I can still be a wise crack, but I ask questions and observe by soaking up whatever I can retain. I hope someday to pass on the same to another student.
Now the challenge comes to those of you in the area who read this, help this student locate an appropriate teacher!
Good Luck and keep us posted on your journey.