I'm one of the quenchers. I never had much luck getting brass good and soft without it. Oh, by the way, a cheap, usually free, source for a depression to form brass, or steel in is the bottom of old oxygen cylinders. They come in several sizes, with different degrees of dish. I even have one made from the bottom of a medical oxygen cylinder that is quite small. Wear ear protection when using these because they ring like a bell.
Hungry Horse