Hi Dan,
Sorry I did not get back to you regarding your last PM. I've been really busy in the shop, lately. You should not need to sand between coats of finish. The trick is not to paint finish on and then let it dry. Instead, seal the stock first, as I described previously to you, and then paint, wipe, or rub on light coats. Let the finish sit for a few minutes, and then wipe all the excess off. That way you have little or no build up that has to be smoothed by rubbing, particularly around carving. You can create a low, medium, or high sheen this way but it takes time because you are adding a little at a time. There are times that I want a high finish that is rubbed back with rottenstone. I always lubricate the abrasive with linseed oil and I use a toothbrush to rub back areas on and around any carving or crisp edges.
dave