I've always been told, read, heard, etc. that 2/3 of way up frizzen is ideal. Makes sense as frizzen tapers toward top? My late Ketland get a Flint bevel up to start, striking 1/2-2/3 up frizzen; when the Flint gets shorter, I turn the Flint over... I do something similar with a Durs Egg, although it is more particular, and often I have to start with bevel down if the Flint is smaller than the full size "3/4(x1)"". The late Ketland really works better for me with smaller 5/8x3/4 flints, which were originally recommended for it, though I also see 3/4x1 recommended for it now.
The marks on the frizzen are normal, even with some skip. Eventually it will look like a washboard, and it will continue to work for a while after that. When the frizzen gets some deep strike wear, I use s little sandpaper to smoothe it enough to keep the Flint from catching and breaking or hanging...
Just my limited experience...