Hi guys,
Thanks for the further tips on trimming down/modifying the list--just as an update, unfortunately the trip to the big gun fair won't be an option for me this year as I'm going to be up in AK during that time doing research.
Serendipitously, I did finally make contact with someone around here who is involved in organizing rendezvous and can teach me how to shoot. My fiance was coming back from getting her oil changed and while waiting I happened to step into a local bookshop. The proprietor--a Robert Duval lookalike--started telling me about a good friend of his who shoots blackpowder. Strange how that happens.
Following that conversation, I'm hoping to attend the next rendezvous at Whispering Pines. Sounds like quite a function that covers a lot of other things I'm interested in, like plant medicine and pioneer crafts.
I think I'll go with the CO2 discharger--while I'd like to "stay traditional," I'd also like to keep both my hands intact while doing so.