When my wife was shooting with us, she was pretty good, never complaining about shooting with or against the boys.
In the buck and doe matches, she'd off times beat you with your own rifle (even Taylor's old .62 Hawken), thus, I have to
agree with Mike about becoming better. Of course, I have to admit here, that it helps if you can load tight fitting loads. She
was a whole 120 pounds back then and had no trouble. 'Course, she got to wrassle with me.
To keep shooters interested in the mean time, maybe a luck shoot now and then will help. Not sure.