Once you have the ball down the length of the short starter's long rod, short strokes is what gets
the patched ball down to the powder. Lift the rod slighlty off the ball, an inch or so, then down the
5 to 10" of the stroke, then up and down again and again until it's on the powder.
Shoot me your e-mail in a PM and I'll send you a short video on this method.
With my .32 barrel, I used a 5/16" rod. Currently I am using a 5/16" rod tapered to 1/4" with the .36 bl.
These small calibres load so easily, it's a POC. (piece of cake)