Northmn,
I would suggest that even if the battle of Monmouth could only be called a draw, it really demonstrated just how much the Americans had learned at Valley Forge.
Got a REAL kick out of your comment Lee was lucky that Washington did not have him shot. Grin. I think that came very close to happening.
After watching "The War of 1812" series on the history channel, the first thing I think about nowadays is the Lady Historian talking about the U.S. deciding to invade Canada. Her comment of, "WHAT were we thinking??!!" Still gives me a chuckle. The Brits not only handed us our butts during our Invasion, but they gained even more territory chasing us back. I think I can explain a part of that. General Hull had no U.S. Marines with him on the Invasion of Canada, while General Jackson did have some Marines with him at New Orleans. Grin. Yes, I'm jesting, but Jackson did have Marines with him.
I don't believe the good British commanders really believed they could have "won" the War of 1812, but it was more because of the number of forces that would have been required to do it. Still the Brits did send two of their most experienced and best commanders over here, Generals Ross and Pakenham.
The burning of Washington was more of retaliation for us burning the Parliament buildings after the Battle of York. I think General Ross would have keeled over from sheer disbelief if we had surrendered to him, though. I also believe the actions the Brits did against Baltimore was to "teach us Americans our place and not be so Uppity" on the world stage. This was more than likely a punitive expedition to also teach us not to invade Canada again.
Now, if one is looking for a battle where American Riflemen REALLY contributed greatly to the War effort against British forces, there is no greater example of when they took out General Ross at the battle of North Point. They also did extremely good work at New Orleans.
I think we can also look to the reasons of the British war strategy when British General Pakenham was given so many troops and sent to secure the Mississippi River in the latter stage of the war. Had they controlled the Mississippi and Canada, they would have effectively squeezed us into remaining East of the Mississippi. Then whether we "came back in the British Empire or not," didn't matter to them.