Steve: in your photograph, two things are apparent. First, the lug/staple doesn't have sufficient feet to hold in the barrel, and second, the holes appear to be wallooooned out too much.
When I use staples like that, I ensure that there is a good foot on each end, onto which the barrel metal can be staked. Also, I drill a hole just large enough that I can tap the staple into the holes. I use two drills and a drill press to ensure the depth is perfect, ie: the staple bottoms in a flat bottomed hole at the same time that the body of the lug strikes the barrel. The first drill has a standard grind, and the second, is flat bottomed. The second drill bit removes the 82 deg taper that the first drill leaves behind.
Drawfile your barrel, at least in the area of the staple, so that the edges of the holes are sharp. Solder will be of absolutely no use for this job...too little surface area.