The Solder-It paste you used (as you pointed out) flows and solders at around 430F.
Then if you heat it up again to undo it or adjust the position, etc, it takes around 650F to make the solder flow.
That according to the mfg'rs instructions.
I would clamp the join firmly together, a small vise grip works great.
Heat to betw purple and light blue.
That should draw the temper and still keep the temp lower than the flow temp of the joint.
Even if it does reach that point, being clamped and held in position, it should just remain soldered as it cools back down again.
Here's a steel temper color chart.
https://www.servicesteel.org/resources/steel-tempering-colorsIf it all fails, I would remove the piece from the trigger all together and make the adjustment in height on the sear bar itself.
Use a piece of mild steel (a large dia nail/spike works).
File a flat on both the nail and the sear bar arm. Clamp together and (I would) Hi-Temp Hard Solder them together.
Protect the sear/sear nose itself by holding that portion in a vise as a heat sink.
Then file the assembly to shape removing un-needed matr'l. Then the final adjusmnet in height to get your trigger pull.