I may be asking a dumb question, but would it be possible to just move the two outside hinge knuckles in a bit with a hammer and punch (punch with a hollow tip, so as not to damage the pin, if necessary)? I'm not talking about swaging the pin. I'm just talking about moving the knuckles toward each other so that they grip the center knuckle slightly. I don't know if they would move and stay, or just spring in and then spring back out again. But thought I'd ask.
It can be hard to hold small stuff like that, but it's often possible to glue the piece to a block of wood which can then be used as a handle for holding and positioning the workpiece. I've used hot glue for that. It doesn't hold that securely, but works okay for some applications, and you can get it to release simply by pouring rubbing alcohol on it. A friend of mine uses 5 minute epoxy to similar effect, and then heats the piece to get it to release.
I look forward to seeing more about the lapping process. I'm eager to learn more about that.