If I read this right, if you are a welder, just build up the top, back of the bridle where the tumbler should make contact. File the built up area down slowly, carefully, until the tumbler stops on the back of the bridle, as the cock stops on top of the plate. IMHO, there should be an ever so slight gap, so's the cock stops first...just a coupla thou, to compensate for peening the top of the lock by the shoulder of the cock, over time.
That said, IMHO, the tumbler taking the brunt of the impact of the moving parts, by stopping on the back of the bridle is much worse than the cock taking the full brunt of the impact with the top of the lockplate. A lock where the tumbler strikes the bridle too hard, will self destruct rather quickly, compared to a lock where only the cock stops forward movement of the moving parts.
IMHO, filing the plate would get you back to the place you were, with the hook of the main spring and the end of the horn on the tumbler.
In fact, anything that will alter the rotation of the tumbler will, effectively, reduce the length of the horn on the tumbler, and put you back where you were, in the beginning.
IMHO, the idea of the cock and the bridle stopping the forward motion of the moving parts simultaneously is an ideal situation, not the common situation. In my experience, few locks have the ideal geometry to stop on the cock and bridle simultaneously. Those locks, with less than perfect geometry, have survived quite well over long periods of continuous use.
IMHO, all in all, once you have a safe spring to tumbler relationship, I would leave well enough alone.
God bless