Tom,
TOF, You admit they are Ok for minor filling, so don't dismiss them entirely. Thats all I have used them for.
Didn't dismiss them...that's why I said OK for minor filling. To me, that is a small nick in the wood or an inlay gap.
Have never a had a "structural" repair so I'm not sure what you mean , but I've not had a problem with bond strength or hardness for what I am doing.
He said he had to make a "stock repair" in a walnut stock. That indicated to me that it was more than a small ginker in the wood and could be a large crack, split, etc. Something where bond strength is needed for a permanent repair.
Of course my oil paint tubes are at least 43 years old (got them in high school). Maybe todays oil paints are made different.
I got mine back in the 70's, so I don't think they differ from yours much.
And I don't know what brand of "epoxy" you are using.
I've used epoxies by Duro, 3M, Acraglas, and the cheapo, clear 5 minute stuff. My experience with the clear stuff is that it remains flexible even after it has reacted and adding anything to it just makes it more flexible.
As far as I know, only lacquer thinner is a suitable solvent for common epoxies. Alcohol carried stains or oil based ones will mix with, but not dissolve in epoxy. The alcohol must evaporate from the mix to leave its dye behind. Oil based ones will contain trapped oil. Neither of these is desireable for strength.
Bondo is merely epoxy resin with talcum powder mixed into it. It remains relatively flexible and soft because of this. Many use the tempura powders in the same manner and it works well if you can get the color you want without using a lot. This is possible with black, but the brown's are a b..tch to get dark enough and the more you add, the softer the result.
I pretty much use Acraglas these days for most things. For filling things like knotholes and such, I made pitch glue by heating pine pitch to drive off the volatiles and then mixing powdered charcoal into it. Less frequently, I use shellac sticks in conjuction with a heated pallet knife to fill things. Both are period and permanent and require being melted before application. I would use these instead of epoxy for restorations.
Every time a thread like this gets started people are quick to rush in to provide a solution before the real problem is known. Perhaps asking questions before providing solutions would be more apropos. However, human nature being what it is, people rush in to tell how THEY do it regardless of what is being done. There seems to be a lack of problem solving skills developed because it is much easier to just log on and ask a question rather than experiment and figure out how to do something yourself.